Are You Just Too Nice of a Person?

Photo of Ted Bundy in High School

Photo of Ted Bundy in High School

Maybe you’re just too nice? I’m the type of person who will ask anyone just about anything. Like if I see something I’m interested in, I ask and the vast majority of people are FAR TOO EAGER to tell me their story.

While this is a good trait that makes us neighborly and spread good cheer, criminals will use this “good will” against you.

It’s human nature that most people want to help. It makes you feel important and needed. We are far too happy to share a restaurant, recipe or talk about our vacations. We love to show and tell.

I have to chuckle when I see self defense students role play as the bad guy saying “give me your money?” like they were in a 1970’s crime drama.

Criminals are far too sophisticated for that. They will create situations where they will appear helpless. This will cause you to immediately dismiss them as a threat and proceed to put on your “Good Neighbor” badge and do whatever they ask.

A perfect example of this is serial killer Ted Bundy who would go as far as wear a cast and use crutches to get his victims to help him. Bundy was a charismatic attractive man who would lure women away from the public. As soon as he had them isolated, he would over take them and have his way killing , raping and torturing his victims and even engaging in necrophilia. He even went as far as decapitating 12 victims and keep their heads as mommentos. Bundy is credited with at least 30 homicides in at least seven states. Fortunately Bundy was put to death in the electric chair in 1989.

There are dozens if not hundreds of ways a criminal can isolate you. Fortunately you don’t have to know one of them.

In the SDTS Combatives Program you learn one simple rule: don’t get isolated. In training you discover how to become in tune with your environment. Each lesson teaches you how to pay attention to your surroundings and listen to your instincts. Then it is extremely simple, if you don’t know them, you’re not getting in a car, going into an apartment, entering a home or any place where you are isolated from the general public.

Criminals are cunning, they will use logical reasoning to leverage your “good will” against you, but it won’t work because after you tell them, “I’m going into this (store, bar or public place) and calling the police to help you. ”

Their true intentions will be revealed. If they wish to cause you harm they continue to press you NOW you know what they REALLY want, and if you can’t escape you will need to defend yourself and you can START HERE RIGHT NOW FOR FREE.

Bad people do bad things and sometimes good people need to do bad things to survive.

No B.S. just…

Train Honestly,

Damian Ross
CEO, The Self Defense Company

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